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Planning a Jewish wedding can be one of the most meaningful experiences and also one of the most overwhelming places.

As someone who has captured countless Jewish weddings, I know how vital it is to find a photographer who truly understands your vision and the traditions that make your day unique.

Your photographer will be the one preserving your cherished rituals and heartfelt moments.

To help you find the perfect match, here are ten essential questions to guide your conversations with potential photographers

1. Do you have experience photographing Jewish weddings?

Jewish weddings have unique customs and traditions, so it’s important to work with someone familiar with them. From the breaking of the glass to the chuppah ceremony, experience ensures nothing gets missed.

Personally, I always make sure to talk to the officiant or Rabbi before the ceremony begins to make sure I know exactly what to expect.

Two questions I always ask: (1) Which direction will the bride and groom stand during the ceremony? and (2) where will the Rabbi place the glass on the floor before the smashing of the glass!

Both of those questions, change my game plan for how I photograph the ceremony!

2. Are you familiar with specific Jewish rituals and traditions, such as the chuppah, ketubah signing, Tisch + Bedekin, Shtick or horah?

These moments are central to your celebration. A photographer with knowledge of these rituals will know when and how to capture them with sensitivity and precision.

There are specific traditions you can explain to someone until they are blue in the face, but if they haven’t experienced it before, they won’t truly understand what to expect and how to photograph it!

3. Can you accommodate the timeline of a traditional Jewish wedding day?

Jewish weddings often involve extended celebrations, and more traditions and rituals than most secular weddings. Ensure your photographer is comfortable working with a more flexible and potentially longer timeline.

For most secular weddings, I suggest at least 8 hours of coverage, but for Jewish Weddings, I suggest at least 9 or 10 hours, depending on how many traditions the couple is planning on!

4. How do you ensure privacy and respect during religious moments?

Key religious moments, such as what happens under the chuppah and during the veiling of the bride, require a photographer who understands the importance of being unobtrusive while still capturing the beauty of the moment.

I always say, I will be under the chuppah for part of your ceremony with you, but I will be as quiet and as quick as a ninja so I can be the least disruptive as possible. I will never get in the way of the other people under the chuppah, but I will always be there to capture the special moments!

5. How do you handle unexpected challenges on the wedding day?

An experienced photographer is prepared for anything from sudden weather changes to tight timelines, ensuring your day goes smoothly and your photos turn out beautifully no matter the circumstances.

I always say that as a wedding photographer, you have to embrace the chaos and learn how to go with the flow… You can plan every moment to a T, but at the end of the day, 95% of wedding timelines run late or need to be adjusted in the moment and as the photographer you just got to roll with it, be confident and make sure your clients are as calm and as in the moment as possible!

6. Do you offer a second photographer?

I highly recommend two photographers for any Jewish wedding and even more so if you are planning on having a Tisch and Bedekin at your wedding!With so much happening simultaneously, having two photographers ensures every special moment is beautifully captured.

Many couples ask me if they should have three photographers, and I always say that if you are having less than 400 people at your wedding, two photographers is plenty! I find three photographers a little overwhelming for the couple, their family and their guests. We are there to enhance everyones experience and not overwhelm it!

7. How do you approach family portraits?

Jewish weddings often include large and extended families. Your photographer should have a clear plan to efficiently organize and capture these important portraits.

I believe there is really only one way to make sure my couples get all the family combinations they (and their parents) could possibly want… and it is being bossy in the nicest way possible!

I ask my clients to write out a list of all the different family combinations they want so I can print the list, call them out and check them off as we go.

My goal is to go as quickly and as painless as possible when it comes to the family photos.

8. What backup equipment and plans do you have?

A reliable photographer should have backup cameras, lenses, and a contingency plan to ensure no technical issues disrupt their ability to capture your day.

I always bring three cameras, just in case, and I make sure every single photo I capture are recorded to two memory cards, just in case one is defective.

9. Can you share examples of full wedding galleries?

While highlight reels and Instagram posts are great, seeing complete galleries will give you a better sense of their style, consistency, and how they capture an entire event.

Social media is full of the best of the best, galleries are full of every single moment of a wedding day captured. It is a completely different viewing experience and I personally, like the full gallery experience better! Makes it all more real!

10. How do you incorporate cultural or personal details into the photos?

Jewish weddings are rich in tradition and meaning. Ask your photographer how they’ll highlight these elements, from embroidered tallitot to family heirlooms.

As someone who has stood under the chuppah at her own wedding and is now a proud, Jewish mama, I understand the importance of our culture and rituals in a deep way that makes me photograph those details with so much love and honor.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right photographer ensures the memories of your Jewish wedding are beautifully preserved. These questions will help you find someone who aligns with your vision, values, and the traditions that make your celebration unique. Take the time to have open conversations with potential photographers, and don’t be afraid to trust your instincts.

Mazel tov on this exciting chapter of your life! Your perfect photographer is out there, ready to capture every meaningful moment.

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One of the things I love most about being Jewish is how there’s never just one way to do things. As the saying goes, “two Jews, three opinions!” This is a common and beloved theme in our culture and weddings are no exception!

Every couple brings their own personal touch, and over the years, I’ve seen how beautifully diverse Jewish weddings can be. 

In 2024, I’ve noticed five amazing trends within the Modern Orthodox Jewish wedding scene that I just can’t get enough of! They blend tradition with fresh, new practices in ways that feel meaningful and modern while still honoring the roots of our faith. 

And if I am being totally honest with you, I have 100% cried seeing each and everyone of these new trends!

Ketubah Signing Under the Chuppah

This one is for all the strong, proud Jewish women out there who want to be fully present when their Ketubah is being signed. 

Traditionally, the Ketubah signing takes place in a private room before the ceremony (without the bride), but more and more couples are choosing to make this moment part of the ceremony itself, right under the chuppah. 

It’s such a powerful statement of partnership, with both the bride and groom sharing the moment in front of all of their loved ones. It’s a beautiful way to honor the significance of the promises written and make the moment even more intimate and meaningful. 

Plus, it’s an empowering way for the bride to be right there as the ink is put to paper, highlighting the equal role both partners play in the marriage they are about to enter.

A Joint Tisch

One of the trends I’m loving this year is the joint tisch, where both the bride and groom, side by side, celebrate with their guests before the wedding!

Traditionally, the Tisch is a separate event: the groom and his friends gather to sing, drink, and engage in lively discussion, while the bride’s celebration takes place in a completely separate room. 

But in 2024, more couples are choosing to have a joint tisch, bringing everyone together for a shared pre-chuppah celebration! 

It’s a beautiful way to start the festivities with a sense of unity, excitement and simcha. 

There is something so special about seeing parents, siblings, friends and the entire community come together with pure happiness and anticipation. This trend creates an unforgettable energy and sets a tone of togetherness for the rest of the celebration. 

Both Exchanging Rings + Circling

In 2024, I’m seeing more and more couples incorporating both the bride and groom exchanging rings and circling each other during the ceremony, and I absolutely love it! 

Traditionally, the groom places the ring on the bride’s finger and the bride circles the groom but now more than ever before couples are opting for the bride to give a ring to the groom under the chuppah and the groom circles the bride as well! How cool is that?!

The circling symbolizes the creation of unity and a new home. It’s a deeply significant act which feels even more meaningful when both partners circle each other.

This twist on the tradition emphasizes the partnership and balance of the couple. It’s so powerful to watch and brings an extra layer of meaning to the ceremony.

There is something so heartwarming in seeing both the groom and bride recite the words “Harei at mekudeshet li b’taba’at zo k’dat Moshe v’Yisrael.”

This translates to:
“Behold, you are consecrated to me with this ring, according to the law of Moses and Israel.”

Seeing both the bride and groom perform these loving acts of commitment feels like an even stronger, more meaningful way to begin their marriage. 

Wrapping a Tallit Around Both the Bride and Groom

Traditionally, the groom wears the tallit under the chuppah, symbolizing the sacredness of the moment. However, more couples are choosing to have the bride join him, creating a shared experience that symbolizes their mutual commitment and the creation of their new home together. 

The act of enveloping both partners in the same tallit is deeply symbolic, representing the protection, love, and unity that will surround them throughout their marriage.

It also reflects the Jewish value of partnership, where both individuals are equal participants in building their future. 

This trend adds a powerful layer of connection between the couple and their families, as the tallit is often passed down through generations, making it a beautiful way to honor heritage while embracing the future together.

Modern Orthodox Jewish Wedding ceremony with bride and groom under the Chupah

Original Songs Sung by Family or Friends During the Reception

One of the sweetest and most personal trends I’ve seen at Jewish weddings in 2024 is family and friends singing original songs during the reception. 

These performances add a truly unique and heartfelt touch to the celebration. Whether it’s a creative parody of a popular song, a funny tribute to the couple, or a heartfelt, original tune celebrating the couple’s love story, these songs never fail to put a smile on everyone faces. 99% of the time, everyone is singing the chorus by the end!

I’ve seen everything from funny and playful tunes about the couple’s first meeting to heartfelt songs that honor their families and traditions. The best part? There are no rules—anything goes, and it’s always a beautiful reflection of the couple’s unique journey and the love that surrounds them!

The beauty of Jewish weddings lies in both their deep-rooted tradition AND their incredible diversity—there’s no “one right way” to celebrate and continue the tradition, and that’s exactly what makes each wedding and each couple so uniquely special. 

From personal twists on timeless rituals to new trends that bring fresh energy to the celebration, Jewish weddings are constantly evolving while staying true to the heart of our faith.

Ultimately, these new trends serve as a powerful reminder that the most important thing is honoring the love, joy, and connection between the couple, their families, and their community.

The traditions may vary, but the essence remains the same.

Now more than ever, we need to celebrate and support Jewish love in all its forms.

These weddings are a reflection of the rich, evolving story of the Jewish community and the beautiful connections we create. These weddings connect us to our past and our future.

 I’m so excited to see what trends 2025 will bring, and I can’t wait to continue capturing these meaningful moments with you all!

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Have you ever met a couple whose energy just lights up the room?

That’s Yael and Doug for you!Where do I even begin with Yael and Doug?! 🥹

From the second our session started, it was clear that these two are absolute magic together. ✨ Their playful energy is contagious—constantly teasing each other, laughing at the little things, and just fully embracing every moment. You can tell they love every single part of each other, from the quirks to the strengths and everything in between. 💕

What struck me most is how they’re each other’s biggest cheerleaders. Whether it’s supporting each other’s dreams or just being there on the tough days, they’ve built this incredible foundation of love and support. And let me tell you—capturing that on camera? Priceless. 📸

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Brett had the perfect plan to surprise Jenna… and it started with breaking a few rules!

Jenna was nervous as Brett led her through the gates of Gramercy Park—a place you can only enter if you have a key. But Brett? He had something else up his sleeve. As they ‘sneaked’ in, Jenna’s face was priceless. You could just tell she was not on board for sneaking in, but did it anyway for her Brett…

Little did she know, Brett had this entire thing planned! When he dropped to one knee, Jenna’s worry instantly melted into pure joy. Her hand flew to her mouth in total shock, and suddenly nothing else mattered.

The way she looked at him? You could feel the love. This was more than just a proposal—it was a moment where they threw caution to the wind and embraced a future full of love, laughter, and maybe just a little bit of rule-breaking.

Brett and Jenna, I could not be happier for you!!! Cheers to this incredible season in your lives!!

Capturing moments like these, where love surprises even the most careful hearts, is why I love what I do.

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It was like a dream… the palm trees were swaying in the wind, the sun was setting, the temperature was more than perfect and when Shelby walked down the aisle, Danny had the biggest smile that lit up all of Boca Raton. It was one of those moments that you just knew every single person there would cherish forever. The way these two love each other is truly beautiful, genuine, and sweet. I mean, they were jumping up and down with excitement at their first look, and that says it all!!

Every time Shelby and Danny have hugged me hello since I met them, they have hugged me at the same time. They don’t take turns. They embrace me with warmth and love together!

Even those small gestures, they do as a unite.

Their souls were made for one another.

They are linked in a way that words can’t describe, and I, for one, feel completely and totally blessed to know their love, capture their wedding, and feel their vibrance!

Whatever these two beautiful humans do in life, I know every moment, every obstacle, and every adventure will bring them closer and closer together. I, for one, cannot wait to see where their life takes them!!

A couple that hugs together stays together.

Shelby and Danny, I adore you more than you know!! Cheers to you, your marriage, and 120 + years of health and happiness!

Creative Team:

Venue: Broken Sound Club @brokensoundclub

Cantor: My Personal Cantor | @mypersonalcantor

Ceremony Music: The Elegant Harp | @elegantharp

Videographer: Affordable Pro Video: |@vincentingraoapv

Hair Stylist: @phairisluxury

Make-Up Artist: @rachellaurenbeauty

Wedding Planner: @itsallinthedetailsbymb

Photo Booth: The Gala Photobooth | @thegalaphotobooth

Florist: Dalsimer Atlas | @dalsimeratlas

Band: The Headliners Band | @theheadlinersband

Jewish Wedding Photography + Bride and Groom

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Waking up to photograph Rachel and Shai’s wedding made changing the clocks WAYY easier and a lot sweeter this year!

Let’s just say it was one beautiful day. Not only was the weather the definition of perfection, but the love, spirit, and joy that encompassed the entire day left me absolutely speechless.

The beauty of Rachel and Shai’s wedding day, held amidst the vibrant early November foliage, is a testament to the power of love and the richness of Jewish tradition.

And right now, the Jewish people need as much joy and as much love as we can find.

Don’t even get me started on the twinkle in Rachel’s eyes or the adorable grin Shai was sporting all day.

These two were meant for one another in the always and forever, best friends for life, partner through everything kind of way. It brings me so much happiness as a photographer to be a part of wedding days like this one, but brings me even more warmth and comfort as friend to know that no matter what, Rachel and Shai have each other!

Rachel and Shai, cheers to you, your love, and 120+ years of health and happiness!!

Creative Team:

Venue: Appleford Estate@applefordestate

Florist: Floraltology@floraltology

Dress Designer: Casablanca@casablancabridal

Dress Boutique: Best Total Wedding Plaza@besttotalweddingplaza

Band: Mitlas Productions | @mitlasproductions

Caterers: Classical Caterers

Make-Up Artist: Daneene Jensen and Associates@daneenejensenhairmakeup

Invitation suite: Cohen Printing@cohenprinting

Printers: Paperless Post@paperlesspost

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Elegant, fun, joyful, loving, stunning, colorful, silly, full of life and sweet are just some of the words that come to mind when describing not only Sarah and Zach as a couple but their magical wedding at the Fairmount Horticulture Park in Philadelphia, PA.

It was truly an incredible October day. The sun was shining, the smiles were heartwarming and the sense of community and commitment was something to absolutely admire. 

This is the kind of celebration that the entire Jewish people needed right now. 

The kind of celebration that reminded everyone that love, family and joy is what really matters. The kind of wedding that honored tradition and culture. The kind of marriage that started off with nothing but endearment, devotion and glee. 


The love Sarah and Zach have for one another was evident in every moment, every detail and every smile. Their easy going, fun-nature made for one EPIC reception, with dancing that never stopped!

Sarah and Zach, cheers to you, your marriage and 120 + years of health and happiness!

Xos!

Creative Team

Photographer: Yael Pachino Photography LLC | @yael_pachino

Venue and Catering: Fairmount Park Horticulture Center | @byconstellation

Florist and Event Planner: Ronit Snitman | @flower_tales

Invitation suite: Sealed with a Kiss Haddonfield

Bridal Boutique: Bridal Garden | @bridalgarden

Dress Designer: Calla Blanche | @callablanchedress

Florist and Event Planner: Ronit Snitman | @flower_tales

Furniture Rental: Lilac and Lace | @lilacandlaceco

DJ: DAmico Entertainment | @damicoentertainment

Ketubah Artist: OUR LOVELY BRIDE SARAH

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Couple kissing at their Renault Winery wedding surrounded by flowers, along with details from the day.

I need to be honest, I planned on posting this days ago, but I couldn’t find the right words to describe how absolutely beautiful Robyn and Evan’s Renault Winery wedding truly was!

I am still in awe of how perfectly it all came together (thanks to Renee Rubenstein, Robyn, and the very talented Jamie of Lauren James Events).

When I spoke to Evan for the first time on the phone in March 2022, I knew I liked him right away. He was just so head over heals in love with Robyn. The way he spoke about her and their life together, I could tell they were the perfect match for one another.

From the moment I met Robyn, I felt a real connection with her. Her joy, warmth, love for her family and friends, and outlook on life made me immediately want to be friends with her.

On May 13, 2022, I was lucky enough to capture sweet Evan popping the question making Robyn the happiest bride – to – be and exactly a year later, I was HONORED to be the one to capture their wedding day. Robyn was not only stunning in every way but one of the happiest brides I have ever seen!

Their wedding day was everything…

It was a fairytale full of love, happiness, and tons of laughter. Robyn was glowing all day. Her smile alone could have lit up a room. Put Evan and Robyn together, and it was nothing short of pure magic.

Robyn and Evan’s vows left everyone swooning. Their first dance left everyone amazed, and the treat truck at the end of the wedding left everyone with bags of delicious candy. What could be better?

Robyn and Evan, MAZELS! I could not be happier for you two. I already know your life together will be full of happiness, love, and joy, and I personally can not wait to see it all!!!

Xos!


Event Planner: Lauran James Events | @ljevents
Venue: Renault Winery & Resort | @Renaultwineryresort
Florist: Robertson’s Flowers & Events | @robertsonsflowers
Dresser : Melissa McCourt | @weddingdressernj
Band : EBE Talent London | @ebetalent
Videographer: CinemaCake Filmmakers | @cinemacake
My Treat Truck : @mytreattrucknj
Make-up artist @juliekatemakeup

Renault Winery Wedding, South Jersey + Robyn and Evan + Jewish Wedding

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” You are my world, and I wouldn’t change a thing…”

Flushing Meadows Corona Park was the perfect location for an engagement session for Rachel and Shai. Not only is it a place that means a lot to Rachel, but the fact that these two love each other with all their hearts, made it even more incredible.

There is nothing like photographing two people who look at each other with so much love and admiration that you know, they mean the world to each other.

Rachel and Shai definitely share that connection, the kind of connection where their days always with one another, every time something good or bad happens, they are the first people each other calls and they have secret smiles saved for only each other.

Those secret smiles give me ALL the butterflies in the best way : )


That is the kind of love we all dream of. That is the kind of love that will grow, flourish, and thrive with all of life’s challenges. Rachel and Shai, I know your love is out of this world and one of a kind, and I am honored to have been a part of this special season in your life together!



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Picture this… You are at Maynard’s on the Jersey Shore with the rest of your friends. It is a typical summer shore weekend when you notice your friend is talking to the cute brunette you JUST matched with.You walk right up to them and completely ignore your friend and spend the rest of the night in the corner talking to the cutest and sweetest girl you have ever met…

and that was JUST the beginning.

Fast forward a few years and you are at the same bar posing for your engagement photos, looking super cute with your pup Reese.

I mean, can it get better than that?!!!

I am absolutely blown away by these two…or should I say three!

Little pup, Reese, almost stole the show with her sweetness, but nothing could beat the love and joy that feels electric whenever Shelby and Danny are together.

Their love is fun, silly, full of respect and support, and there is really nothing better than that!

Their easygoing nature and excitement for life is something I deeply admire, and I could not be more excited and happy for these two!

I already know your wedding day is going to be a special one!

Shelby and Danny, I can’t wait to continue celebrating the two of you!! Xos!

Work With Yael

My mission is to not only craft images, but really celebrate the unique spirit of Jewish love. I'm here to honor our culture, capture the magic of your love, create family heirlooms for your future and do it all with a whole lot of heart and soul.

For Jewish Couples who want to honor our past traditions, feel the present moment and create a legacy for the future.